For those of you who haven't yet experienced the joy of 9 year olds, I will share this:
They have finally come to the realization that mom and dad really don't know what they're talking about and can't possibly understand the life and experience of a 9 year old girl (who is no longer a little girl!). (A truly dizzying and complex reality.) We no longer understand what is stylish, or have good dance moves (this didn't really surprise us). But, although we are old and don't get it...we are still loved and tolerated--if only for the weekly allowance we offer, purchasing power we have, and for tucking her in at night (with hugs and kisses)!